Saturday, December 29, 2007

Thoughts on Love

"Pag dating sa love, walang pride-pride. You do what you can and hope for the best. Kase pag hinde, you'll spend the rest of your life wondering "what if?""

Ayan, ayan ang words of wisdom ko to one very dear friend.

Pero ngayon na naaalala ko, I cringe. Was it really me na nagsabi nun? Ako nga.

For me kase, in love, there's no room for fear and pride. You must not be afraid to show people how you really feel. Wear your heart on your sleeve for all to see. Show them that you are happy, show them that you are hurting. You must not be afraid of rejection or of getting hurt because once you love someone, you give that person the power to hurt you. It's all part of the deal. There's no room for pride either. Beg if you have to. Ask for one more chance. Or if you don't want to get back together with the person, don't hesitate to demand for a decent breakup where all the cards are laid down. Track him down, hunt him if you have to. Tie him to a chair or hold him hostage if that's the only way he'll talk to you. Get everything cleared. At least, you won't go into another relationship with the same doubts, the same fears.

There's no room for fear and pride in a relationship. Only for dignity, respect, honesty, and passion (walang kokontra, kelangan talaga ng passion).

Here's me wishing everyone a happy, colorful, and satisfying life for 2008 and always.

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